I had to feel to heal

Struggling to heal emotionally?

I'm accomplishing this daily by allowing myself to FEEL via The BODY, an acronym for Bible, Oils, Dance & Your Strengths.

Love Myself, Take Care of Me

Love Myself, Take Care of Me

 Love myself take care of me..take care of me? How, how can that be?

It is me, yes me I can not see. So sad, so lonely, so out of touch. To

take care of me that is too much! Love myself, you mean love me?

Impossible for me you see. Love requires one to feel and to feel for me

Is not so real. Love myself, take care of me. My voice is one that cannot

be heard, shut off completely not a word! Love myself, take care of me.

These words echo inside my head, yet in my heart and soul such a dread.

I don't know what to do or where to begin, taking care and loving me is

that a sin?... Why love myself, why take care of me? From Jehovah Gods

Love and image I was made. From the blood of his precious son my debts were

paid! That undeniable truth has set many free and in that many there i

must be. So I must learn to love myself, I must learn to take care of me.

Then I will truly be free! Free to see me, free to feel me, free to hear me and free

just to be


Vi Gatlin

My Background

Hello, my name is Vi. I grew up in a dysfunctional home where I experienced physical abuse, emotional neglect, and abandonment. No blame here…just generational crap passed on. I wasn’t feeling seen, heard and... just not feeling.

Today, I will show you how I best interact in the world. How I am digging myself out of the bottomless pit of scarcity, self hate, isolation and not feeling good enough! If that is how you feel. My goal is to extend a helping hand to you. Let me assist you out of this bottomless pit as well.

As a youth Improv, dance allowed me to express what was going on in my inner world through movement, when I could not do so verbally. I absolutely love it! It’s a great outlet of self expression. I am exposed, I feel seen, heard and appreciated when I dance.

Wellness Advocate & Life Coach

The BODY: BIBLE-Oils-Dance-Your Strengths each of these modalities throughout my life played a significant role in allowing myself to feel and in turn heal emotionally. I have over 35yrs of Bible and Dance education and instructing. I am a Certified Essential Oil Specialist and an Eddie Villa Certified Strengths Coach. Each of these provide me the opportunity to be a powerful resource in assisting you on your healing journey. You may naturally be pulled to one or the other. They support one another, harmoniously working all together, confident and unstoppable you will be!! I will guide you in getting connected with yourself. If you are committed to doing the work, I’m here to support you. I look forward to assisting you every step of the way on your journey to healing emotionally.

Why Me?

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Learning about my strengths makes me more aware of my relationship to the world around me. It wakes me up and gives me a way of sorting options and remaining connected to myself.

Vi, you have ...

Anne D

"Learning my strengths has helped me know myself better. I have discovered things that motivate me as well as grown in my understanding of why I do things the way that I do. It has given me ...

Nik C

I started a new business and Vi’s coaching me with my strengths helped me over come hurdles with work, and gave me the confidence I needed to be successful. 

Wayne G

Its Time For You

I'm glad you took the first step! Let me know what service I can assist you with and I look forward to connecting with you..